Gay & Lesbian Community Responds To Bishop's Decision

National Organization Demands Apology To Family

POSTED: 7:22 am PST March 21, 2005  10News.com
UPDATED: 7:33 am PST March 21, 2005
 

Members of San Diego's gay and lesbian community will meet Monday night to discuss how to respond to Bishop Robert Brom's decision not to allow Catholic funeral services for the owner of a popular local nightclub.

Brom decided not to allow any of the 98 Roman Catholic churches in San Diego or Imperial counties to hold services for Club Montage owner John McCusker Jr. because the diocese deemed his business "inconsistent with Catholic moral teaching."

McCusker, 31, died March 13 of congestive heart failure while vacationing in Mammoth. More than 500 people attended funeral services on Friday at St. Paul's Cathedral, an Episcopal church.

 
Members of San Diego's gay and lesbian community, outraged that McCusker was denied a Catholic funeral, will meet tonight to discuss ways of responding to Brom's decision. Protests at the diocese office or at local churches are one option, organizers said.

The meeting is scheduled for 6 p.m. Monday at the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center of San Diego, 3909 Centre Street.

In addition, the leadership of Dignity USA, a group made up of gay and lesbian Catholics based in Washington, D.C., is calling on Brom to apologize to McCusker's family.

McCusker's family, said to comprise devout Catholics, planned a funeral at the Immaculata Catholic Church on the campus of the University of San Diego, where McCusker attended school. But Brom nixed the idea.

During the weekend, diocese officials released a statement saying that pornography was filmed at McCusker's popular Club Montage, which caters to a straight crowd on Fridays and a gay clientele on Saturdays. Diocese officials also said that gay porn stars made appearances at a North Park bar called ReBar, which was also owned by McCusker.

Club Montage is closed five days of the week and the space is usually rented out to private groups, McCusker's former business partner, Michael Mack, told The San Diego Union-Tribune.

"As far as what was filmed there, we had nothing to do with the filming or production," Mack told the newspaper.

A notice on the Club Montage Web site announced that "sadly and regretfully Club Montage is closed indefinitely."

Brom's move is allowed under a rarely used provision in Catholic canon law usually reserved for the gravest of sinners, according to the Rev. John J. Coughlin, an internationally respected professor of canon law at the University of Notre Dame.

"Bishops usually refuse a funeral to someone if it would cause mass scandal within the church," Coughlin said. "This is something usually reserved for organized crime figures. I've never heard it applied to the owner of a gay club. Denying someone a Catholic funeral is rarely ever done."

Coughlin said the move is discretionary, but it would have to be taken by a bishop "for a very notorious reason."

"The bishop must also consider whether the person reconciled with God before their death," Coughlin said. "But it is sometimes difficult to determine a man's relationship with God in the moments before his death."

 

 


Catholic Funeral Services Denied To Gay Business Man

San Diego, Imperial Catholic Churches Barred From Holding Services

POSTED: 7:06 am PST March 18, 2005  10News.com
UPDATED: 2:41 pm PST March 18, 2005

 

Funeral services for a man whose nightclubs cater to the gay community were held at an Episcopal church Friday after San Diego Bishop Robert Brom reportedly ruled out Catholic services for the man.

 

Brom decided not to allow any of the 98 Roman Catholic churches in San Diego or Imperial counties to hold services for Club Montage owner John McCusker Jr. because the diocese deemed his business "inconsistent with Catholic moral teaching," according to The San Diego Union-Tribune.
 

 

McCusker, 31, died Sunday of congestive heart failure while vacationing in Mammoth, his family told the newspaper.

Brom made the decision three days later after learning that McCusker's family planned a funeral at the Immaculata Catholic Church on the campus of the University of San Diego, where McCusker attended school, the Union-Tribune reported.

Mike Portantino, a friend of McCusker's and publisher of the San Diego-based Gay & Lesbian Times, said McCusker's family members are devout Catholics and his mother taught catechism, the newspaper reported.

McCusker's funeral was held at St. Paul's Cathedral near Balboa Park, at 11 a.m. Friday, the Union-Tribune reported. It was followed by burial at Temecula Public Cemetery in Temecula.

"Our basic philosophy at the cathedral is whoever you are and wherever you find yourself on the journey of faith, we welcome you," said the Rev. Scott Richardson, St. Paul's dean.

McCusker's popular nightclub, Club Montage, caters to a straight crowd Friday nights and a gay crowd Saturday nights. He also owned a gay bar in North Park called ReBar.

Diocese officials told the Union-Tribune that the bishops' order has nothing to do with the fact McCusker was gay, but rather his "public activity" as a businessman.

A notice on the Club Montage Web site announced that "sadly and regretfully Club Montage is closed indefinitely."

The family asked that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made in McCusker's name to the San Diego Human Dignity Foundation.