Don May was born in Detroit Michigan January 28, 1932 to Earl and Marybelle May.  He was the youngest of six children.  Don served in the Navy on the aircraft carrier Champion; taught high-level ballroom dancing and worked in the funeral industry.  Don lived in San Diego for many years and was an long time active member of the San Diego Chapter of DignityUSA.  Don passed away on October 6, 2006.

In addition to Joe Spinella, his life partner of 15 years, Don is survived by his son Scott and daughter Leah, 5 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.

For those considering making a donation in Don's memory, gifts can be sent to the V.A. Loma Linda Health Care System, V.A. Medical Center 111P, 11201 Benton St, Loma Linda, CA 92356, & reference Pulmonary Rehab Fund.